We all have heard that communication is 80 percent “how you say it.” Because of this, memorizing scripts and pickup lines like this:
Really quick. I need a female opinion. We were at the mall today and saw a bunch of men’s shirts for $600. When you see a guy wearing a shirt that he paid 600 bucks for, are you attracted to him or think that he’s trying too hard?
will only take you 20 percent of the way. I don’t know about you, but when I went to school, 20 percent was a Fail. So what’s the solution?
Learn to Use Flirting Eye Contact
I learned (mostly from this site) how to look into any woman’s eyes and make her feel attraction toward you. The system works with any girl, but, because they usually have fewer inhibitions, the hottest girls are actually EASIER to attract with this method.
The Secret to good Eye Contact
One of most over looked portions of meeting new women is intention. Whether you like it or not, your intention will be displayed in your mannerisms. You can try hard to change them, cover them up, but if you have ill intentions, they will be exposed. And rest assured that the girl you are talking to will be proficient at reading body language.
The trick is to make sure you have good intentions. When approaching and talking to a girl, don’t think about how hot she is or about how awesome it will be to nail her. Instead think about what your interaction is going to give to her.
Listen to what she is saying. Figure out what she needs. Then think hard about how you lucky she is to have met you because you are going to solve that problem for her.
Is her boss stressing her out? Concentrate hard-on the tension melting massage you will give her later. Then look deep into her eyes and picture sending that image directly into her mind. It may sound silly, but by visualizing that, your physical body and facial expressions will change. While you may not actually be sending her images telepathically, she will still be able to read your giving intentions in your micro-expressions.
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